Popular Nollywood, actress Anita Joseph, has addressed an issue in relationships where men expect their girlfriends to seek permission before visiting their homes. Joseph expressed her viewpoint, emphasizing that constant communication for such basic actions could signify an unhealthy dynamic in a relationship.
In a social media post, Joseph relayed a story about a friend who faced a breakup because she didn’t inform her boyfriend before visiting his house.
“So someone told me today. That her boyfriend broke up with her because she didn’t call him before coming to his house, according to him don’t invade my privacy, eweee inukwa, taaaa!”
The actress shared her candid advice with her friend, highlighting the need for personal independence and mutual respect in relationships.
Joseph suggested that relying on constant calls or permissions before visiting a partner’s home might indicate a lack of mutual trust and individual freedom
“She said what’s my Advice, Onu m adiro kwa mma. I told her the truth ,if you have to call your man every time you need to go to his house ,then you’re dating yourself Shallom.”
She encouraged individuals to assess their relationships, advocating for a healthy balance of independence and respect within a partnership.
The actress concluded her post with a thought-provoking phrase, urging people to introspect and value their own autonomy.
Use your tongue and count your teeth Shallom. Like how ina apu al*Biko merry Christmas,” she added.
Source: Ajxpressblog