Chinedu Ani Emmanuel, popularly known as Nedu, has sparked controversy with his views on relationships, asserting that a “real man” would never permit his partner to have a male best friend.
In a video shared on his Instagram account, Nedu emphasized the importance of boundaries in relationships, urging men not to tolerate their girlfriends or spouses having close male friends.
“If you’re a real man never in your life allow your woman whether it’s your girlfriend, fiancée or wife have a male bestie. Don’t allow it. I know what I’m saying. A real man would not allow that,” he declared, underlining the significance of maintaining respect and loyalty within romantic partnerships.
Nedu further cautioned against engaging in conflicts with other men over a woman, stressing that such actions are beneath the dignity of a true gentleman.
“Secondly, never fight your fellow man because of a woman. Real men don’t do that. Even if you catch your partner cheating with another man, you don’t have any business with the man. It’s your woman who disrespected you in the first place. So, therefore, never fight another man because of a woman.
“Thirdly, don’t chase after a woman who doesn’t like you. Don’t do that. It’s a waste of your time and resources.
“Fourthly, real men don’t spend money on women who doesn’t add value to their lives. By value, it doesn’t necessarily need to be financial. It can be psychological, spiritual, emotional or otherwise.”
